re: my ex left me again and its tearing me apart (Please give me some advice/insight)

Quit being a cuckold

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She mentioned that the devil sends out spirits to haunt people. My ex has a un pure spirit. She is demonic. ... So I felt better after venting again. I cried but I felt better afterwards.

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You know that phrase "jumping the shark"? You're doing it. You can stop now.

Next time you say you cried I am coming through that computer to punch you in the neck. Crying is okay for a man....once or twice over a woman but you have been crying like a bitch for days. Enough with the boo hooing over some white trash whore. The more you post, the more I want to beat your arse.

She had to have popped his cherry. No way on Earth I'd still be with that woman. Crazy.

You remind me over sensitive guy from Bedazzled

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She mentioned that the devil sends out spirits to haunt people. My ex has a un pure spirit. She is demonic. She also said, she would not be with anyone who tried or took their livelihood away. She said she wouldn't do that to her worst enemy. So I felt better after venting again. I cried but I felt better afterwards.

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I believe we've found the problem. You're a black man. She's the proverbial "white devil." You thought they were just a myth, didn't you? Wrong.

Here's what happened: you met, you fell in love, you gave her the whole thing? Right? The whole enchilada? The big pickle? That's where you screwed up. You're only supposed to give them 1/2. If you give them the whole thing, then what you have done is unleashed the white devil-the shaitan. Many a black man, and some white men such as myself, have been guilty of this across generations. Here's a remedy that was taught to me by an old voodoo priestess in St. Louis Cemetery in New Orleans in front of the mausoleum of Marie LaVeau:

Go to your local Mexican mercado and find some fresh chicken feet.
Go to your local Asian market and find some fresh ginger root.
Go home and mix one chicken foot with 6 ounces of ginger in a blender with 16 ounces of fresh, unpasteurized milk freshly squeezed from the teet of a she goat. (You're on your own for this.) Keep it in your refrigerator.
Every morning, take a drink of the concoction and pray to Jah and/or Haille Selassie for release from the shaitan.

One final thing must be done, though. You must go to your closest novelty store (Spencer, etc.) and buy one of these:



You may recognize it. It is, in fact, a whistle shaped like a dick. A dick whistle.

You may have seen them at bachelorette parties and Michael Sam's Draft Party. Their true use is to ward off evil spirits-that's why the bridesmaids (and Michael Sam) use them. They are a spiritual phallic symbol from times of old that have been used across generations to keep demons at bay, and in particular, white devils. Any man that wears one around his neck is certain to not be harassed or molested by one. Try them out before purchasing and buy the loudest one. Wear it around your neck on the outside of your clothes. Every time you have a thought of the shaitan, that is her trying to creep back into your life. When that happens, blow the whistle as hard and as loud as you can, no matter where you are. It will ward off the evil spirit. Ignore the astounded looks of passer byes. They know not of what you are trying to accomplish. It is none of their concern.

This remedy is sacred and true. Prayers sent, my friend.

Damn Ms Garrison..I found you obnoxious on the SEC Rant but even I feel for you.

I was in a relationship recently with a woman I knew deep down wasn't going to last long term and when it ended she brushed me off in a completely inappropriate way. Basically told me she couldn't go to a ball she had invited me to while we were in the middle of a double date with my friend and her friend. Told me her long time boyfriend (who she told me about from the start) was moving here. She apologized profusely and said she hoped she hadn't burned the bridge with me. She didn't screw me over anywhere near as badly as your ex did you and I basically cut off contact with her. My point is that you have to cut her off for the sake of your sanity. If she spread nasty untrue rumors about you causing you to lose your job you may want to sue her a##. That may be the only satisfaction you get out of the situation.

I know it sucks when you fall for someone and they do that to you. This one I got close to was so cool and so much fun and was very attractive to boot. Never married and no kids in her late 30s. I've struggled with whether to stay in contact with her but she didn't causee to lose my job. That alone tells me this woman you're obsessing over is cold hearted and not worth it