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re: Serious question..if your S/O did this what would your response be?
Posted on 11/1/16 at 7:03 am to vengeanceofrain
Posted on 11/1/16 at 7:03 am to vengeanceofrain
Okay..update.
She did pay him back via Western Union yesterday.
She did lie and lead him to believe that she and I were close friends who had known each other for years, therefore he believed I would have no problem with it and that she was trustworthy. Because he had seen where she and I had tweeted back and forth and both of us happened to live in SC, loosely know some of the same ppl bc we are both nurses, both are avid Gamecocks, etc he bought her story that she and I were actually long-time friends.
She forwarded all of the txt and DM messages from twitter between the two of them to me and he was being truthful about it not being anything intentionally deceptive, underhanded or anything at all to do with trying to score with this chick.
He was pissed about her not keeping her word about repaying him after he went out on a limb to help her. It wasn't bc he was in desperate need of the money back. He said he got a feeling after she did not keep her word and then kept dodging him that something wasn't right, and still believing that she and I were friends, thought that I may be able to find out what was going on with her which was why he asked me to talk with her about recouping the money. Of course, that's when he became aware that she had lied about us being friends to begin with and that further outraged him.
Long story short, turns out he was being truthful all along, my insecurities from a marriage that went horribly wrong surfaced (insecurities I honestly wasn't even aware existed until this happened), things were very, very rough between us for a bit but we are working thru the issues slowly but surely. I believe he definitely learned a lesson about his naivety and blindly believing ppl like he did her. Sad that ppl like her exist, leaching off of others by taking advantage of people's good intentions, but they do and they are everywhere.
Lessons learned all the way around and yes, an overreaction on my part but I don't feel that some level of being annoyed and slightly suspicious of what happened was totally inappropriate at the time.
She did pay him back via Western Union yesterday.
She did lie and lead him to believe that she and I were close friends who had known each other for years, therefore he believed I would have no problem with it and that she was trustworthy. Because he had seen where she and I had tweeted back and forth and both of us happened to live in SC, loosely know some of the same ppl bc we are both nurses, both are avid Gamecocks, etc he bought her story that she and I were actually long-time friends.
She forwarded all of the txt and DM messages from twitter between the two of them to me and he was being truthful about it not being anything intentionally deceptive, underhanded or anything at all to do with trying to score with this chick.
He was pissed about her not keeping her word about repaying him after he went out on a limb to help her. It wasn't bc he was in desperate need of the money back. He said he got a feeling after she did not keep her word and then kept dodging him that something wasn't right, and still believing that she and I were friends, thought that I may be able to find out what was going on with her which was why he asked me to talk with her about recouping the money. Of course, that's when he became aware that she had lied about us being friends to begin with and that further outraged him.
Long story short, turns out he was being truthful all along, my insecurities from a marriage that went horribly wrong surfaced (insecurities I honestly wasn't even aware existed until this happened), things were very, very rough between us for a bit but we are working thru the issues slowly but surely. I believe he definitely learned a lesson about his naivety and blindly believing ppl like he did her. Sad that ppl like her exist, leaching off of others by taking advantage of people's good intentions, but they do and they are everywhere.
Lessons learned all the way around and yes, an overreaction on my part but I don't feel that some level of being annoyed and slightly suspicious of what happened was totally inappropriate at the time.
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Posted on 11/1/16 at 7:14 am to Carolina_Girl
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She forwarded all of the txt and DM messages from twitter between the two of them to me and he was being truthful about it not being anything intentionally deceptive, underhanded or anything at all to do with trying to score with this chick.
Holy frickballs...did you request this or did she voluntarily send them to you?
Either way...
Posted on 11/1/16 at 9:11 am to Carolina_Girl
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yes, an overreaction on my part
I don't think you overreacted at all.
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